Give wings to your Thoughts

  Although everyone has an idea of what self-awareness is, we don’t know exactly where it comes from, what’s it, or why some of us seem to have more or less than others.  In actual self-awareness is having a clear perception of your personality, including strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs, motivation, and emotions. Self-Awareness allows you to understand other people, how they perceive you, your attitude and your responses towards them etc. We many time identify our existence with our position in society , our friends and our family, the needs and desires of our body, and the emotional and intellectual expressions of our mind. For example: We might say ‘I am a student pursuing engineering’. We rarely take the time to contemplate the real nature of our existence, to ask the question, "Who am I?"   So here come self-awareness which help you in understanding why you feel, what you feel and why you behave in a particular way. Once we start learning the concept...

  “Believe in yourself.” This is the message that we all encounter constantly, in books, television shows, superhero comics, and common myths and legends. We are told that we can accomplish anything if we believe in ourselves. Of course, we know that; we cannot accomplish anything in the world simply through belief—if that were true, a lot more children would be soaring in the skies above their garage roof instead of lugging around a cast for a few weeks! However, we know that believing in yourself and accepting yourself for who you are is an important factor in success, relationships, and happiness and that self-esteem plays an important role in living a flourishing life. So the term self-esteem is used to describe a person’s overall sense of self-worth or personal value. In other words, how much you appreciate and like yourself. It involves a variety of beliefs about yourself, such as the appraisal of your own appearance, beliefs, emotions, and behaviours. We all know tha...

  “Time is what we want most, but what we use worst.” In today’s era most of the people look at their bank accounts instead of utilizing their time. They are more curious about how much money they have to invest, spend and to give away. But nobody pays any attention on the time. People who value time more than money are happier and more productive. In fact, time is much more valuable than money because you can use your time to make money but you can’t use the money to purchase more time. The reality is, that you can lose all your money and get it back again, but you’ll never be able to get back your precious time. We spend a great time on thinking about money. We talk about it, worry over it, stress over it, and wonder if we have enough to meet our needs, now and in the future. We all know that each day has only 24 hours and nobody in this world has more than that. So we need to understand that every single minute is unique and once gone, can never come back. We waste ...

Patience is power. Patience is not an absence of action, rather it is “timing; it waits on the right time to act, for the right principle and in the right way”. To be a successful person in life one need to be patient. It is said that “all good things come to those who waits”, if we wish to achieve anything, we cannot expect to achieve it overnight. To be patient is very important, it teaches us to value the effort and not just the success. It’s our mistake to think that happiness can only be attained through certain achievements. Patience takes time to learn if we aren’t born with it. We have to be able to trust and wait. If we have patience we have peace of mind. Many times we expect certain outcomes, or set the standards high and when we didn’t get the things according to that we get frustrated and have no peace in mind. An example of real life is when we are going to see a movie and expecting it to be the best movie ever seen. And when we start watching, it seems to be boring...

We are born to win, but to be a winner we must plan to win, prepare to win, and expect to win. Some people I know are born winners. The definition of winning varies amongst people. For some people, being a winner is all about money and fashion, but for me, being a winner is all about personal satisfaction and born with a family around you who supports you in your good and bad time. A winner is someone that is successful in life and able to achieve his or her goals. Money doesn’t make someone a winner; happiness, love, and a successful life make someone a winner. Me and my siblings consider ourselves as winners as we live a happy live together with a mom and dad around us and bless god for making us who we are. Being a winner is not a very big responsibility you just have to know how to think and treat people. I have a deal with my little sisters, that every time they get a good grade on their report card, they both will get the treat at their favourite place. I want my sisters to be su...

  Remember, we judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their actions. In my search for answer to the toughest question that why people hurt each other intentionally, I find myself being enlightened in the most unusual ways, and often by the most unexpected people. Thoughts are the shadows of our feelings and any feeling imposes the desire to share it. When we our in love, we floats. We wish to shout from the top of mountain and burst it out. In the same way when we are in pain we burst it out in negative way, in case of hatred, anger or violence etc. One day , I was watching a movie and something that stuck with me was that the young offenders and the troubled youths saying "Hurt people, They deserve this!!".There are many ways to interpret this like,  I got hurt, so I’m going to hurt others. I have so much pain, I have to get rid of it onto others. Others deserve to suffer because I did. I had no choice so why should anyone else? I don’t want to be alone in my hurt. ...