Being a Winner


We are born to win, but to be a winner we must plan to win, prepare to win, and expect to win. Some people I know are born winners. The definition of winning varies amongst people. For some people, being a winner is all about money and fashion, but for me, being a winner is all about personal satisfaction and born with a family around you who supports you in your good and bad time. A winner is someone that is successful in life and able to achieve his or her goals. Money doesn’t make someone a winner; happiness, love, and a successful life make someone a winner. Me and my siblings consider ourselves as winners as we live a happy live together with a mom and dad around us and bless god for making us who we are.

Being a winner is not a very big responsibility you just have to know how to think and treat people. I have a deal with my little sisters, that every time they get a good grade on their report card, they both will get the treat at their favourite place. I want my sisters to be successful in life and the only way to do that is if I show them that I am something in life and they will want to be like. My personal life story might give you a bit of refocusing.

In life we face hard times. There are many moments were we tend to ask a lot of questions as Why Now? , Why Me? or Why? When we hit our lowest position we're opened to the greatest change. So the most of the time we meet with our great change when we're down. I'm not saying we should expect the worst, but whatever life throws at you, there will always be the best. This is me saying things turn out the best, for the people who make the best of how things turn out. Even if it’s for the worst or for the best. You can still be at your best.

Everyone has a potential to be a winner. Some people are just disguised as losers but a winner is someone who has given his best effort, who tried the hardest he possibly can, utilized every energy and strength within him to accomplish something. It doesn't mean that they accomplished it or failed, it means that they've given their best. That's a winner. Winners and losers aren't born, they are products of how they think. That’s why it's important, not ever to let a soul in the world tell you that, you can't be exactly who you are.

 

BY: Teena Thakur

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