DON'T HURT PEOPLE INTENTIONALLY

 

Remember, we judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their actions.

In my search for answer to the toughest question that why people hurt each other intentionally, I find myself being enlightened in the most unusual ways, and often by the most unexpected people.

Thoughts are the shadows of our feelings and any feeling imposes the desire to share it. When we our in love, we floats. We wish to shout from the top of mountain and burst it out. In the same way when we are in pain we burst it out in negative way, in case of hatred, anger or violence etc.

One day , I was watching a movie and something that stuck with me was that the young offenders and the troubled youths saying "Hurt people, They deserve this!!".There are many ways to interpret this like, I got hurt, so I’m going to hurt others. I have so much pain, I have to get rid of it onto others. Others deserve to suffer because I did. I had no choice so why should anyone else? I don’t want to be alone in my hurt. I need to share it, etc.

With ego ,anything is possible. To say that "Hurt people,They deserve this!!" makes sense to me .But what about others who hurt people without any reason? How do we explain the fact that some people with great lives, good upbringings ,lots of love and opportunities, still seeks to impose harm on other ? I think our minds become bored with  survival as in developed countries ,anyway,we all have met our basic needs and thus we need something else to occasionally push our minds into "fight our flight mode", in order to feel alive.

I think people get irritated by their regular schedule and I believe that people lie to themselves about what they do and underestimate their own willpower due to  which they loose their confidence and this gives the reason to others to take advantage of them. Everybody go through with different situation and sometimes they fail to get rid of it which makes them aggressive and irritated.

Their are many people who suddenly change themselves for many reasons ,some for good or some for bad , but these changes hurt others . I believe all over compensations, unreasonable decisions are made due to an imbalance in the mind, caused either by bad nurturing or a lack of connection. Without a good balance these, ego is allowed to drive the bus, when it should be sitting at the back of it, forced to be quiet while the metaphorically and sometimes annoyingly cheerful possibilities of happy driving songs echo through the mind.

By : Teena Thakur


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